It’s the second Sunday of the month again, so this evening Husband and I took our neighbour with us and we went to have dinner at the Sharing Sherwood project again.
At the Sharing Sherwood project volunteers cook food given to them by the organization FareShare (they collect food from supermarkets that they would have binned and distributes it to soup kitchens and food banks) and people can come and eat for a donation. The money collected goes to foodbanks in Nottingham.
We had such a lovely time when we went last time and were determined to go back again as it’s such a lovely idea. Last time the donations made plus the entry money totalled £155 – this is a great help for the project as they are hoping to donate at least £100 to each foodbank in December this year from what they’ve made from the dinners.
Hard to imagine that if the food served there had not been snapped up by FareShare it would have been binned by the supermarkets! I have already pencilled in that we’re going next time it’s on in September.
There were fewer people there than last time. We guessed it was because it’s school holidays now and so many of the families who brought their children last time are away on vacation.
Despite having lived in Nottingham since 2009, I hadn’t visited the Windmill here until last Sunday when husband and I went.
It’s free to visit (donations encouraged) and there is also a community garden next door you can go and look around. There is free car parking, or you can take the red 43 bus there.
Green’s Windmill is a working windmill; it grinds grain and you can buy flour made at the mill on the souvenir shop. The Science Centre has some cool activities which deal with magnets, power and illusions.
We came in at £133 for groceries which, while it’s good, is not £130! Must get this together for August!
Travelling to Wales to see husband’s sister and husband for the weekend was lovely. Very relaxing which is just what husband needed.
Our anniversary is on the 31st of July so we went out for breakfast and dinner as my mother sent us some money.
We were gifted a lovely garden seat!
College finished in the start of the month and as the uni job is largely finished for the summer I’ve had this month off. I’ve been doing self employed work, caught up on eBaying, doing surveys, and jobs around the house I’ve had to put off as I just haven’t had the time to do it until now.
Things that have not been good about July include:
Husband had a cold which he gave to me. It hit me much harder and I spent a little over a week in the house feeling really rubbish and drained of energy.
Husband’s workplace are still being mean. Manager has left now and since then Deputy has been running the show; Husband was not given any hours at all last week. When he went by with the time sheet for July so it could be processed, they had two new members of staff in. Looks like the meeting regarding the grievance will be held in August. Husband is very anxious about this and doesn’t want to talk about it, and alternates between being cross and sad about the whole thing.
Husband’s younger sister who has a learning disability has been exploited by someone she trusted by asking her for money under all kinds of pretexts. She was not supposed to be able to access her account but can transfer money out via the banking app and she’s been defrauded of £4000, her savings account is now empty. Bank have said they can’t help but we have contacted the police who are considering it to be fraud. Will challenge the bank via the Financial Ombudsman Service – how was she able to transfer the money out of her account if there are two people named on the account (her and her mother who is her financial guardian), without the other person’s authorization?
To end on a more positive note, here are some pictures from the garden.
After having lived in our house for a year we’ve been talking about what we want to do with the garden space we have, especially the front garden, which has been a mess.
We decided to tidy it up a bit more one Saturday as the weather was ok and we had time. Husband’s family have very generously helped us with trimming the hedge and cutting back plants (we had some shears here that frankly look like a prop from a horror film, that’s how rusty they are).
While I raked the ground and weeded between the slabs, husband swept all the dirt out to neaten the front up a bit.
I was surprised at what I found while raking; found a honeysuckle among the ivy which I’m hoping will bloom as it smells heavenly, I also found these guys:
Who would have thought you could go exploring in your own garden?
I finished off by putting some weed-killer down so hopefully that will keep the weeds at bay. Knowing me I think I’ll just have to keep pulling the weeds up, though.
Husband’s parents and a family friend visited the day after and mother-inlaw has taken some of our pots back as they are moving plants and she has said she’ll gift us plants for the garden, which is very generous of them. I was able to use some nasturtium leaves in the salad we had which was awesome. It’s quite strong so use sparingly; I think it tastes similar to watercress.
The front garden looks much tidier now.
My mother in law suggested potting up the tomato plants and the pepper plant as they need the space to grow, and I think they like it here. Thank goodness for people’s gardening advice though as I feel anything we’ve managed to do has been out of sheer dumb luck so far.
Take husband with you when you go food shopping. No, really! Husband is a stickler for lists and if I try to put something in that is not on the list, he will promptly put it back, stating ‘it’s not on the list.’
Keep bread bags, bagel bags, cereal bags when they are empty. Wash them and hang them to dry, to then reuse to wrap food in, or to take lunch to work, or to scoop out the litter tray. I wash mine and hang them on the line outside. Why no, I have no shame, why do you ask?
Save aluminum foil. I support the students at work by buying food from them when they do cafes or have a breakfast club and it comes lovingly wrapped in lots of foil. I carefully fold this up and take it home to reuse, for example to put on the cat’s tin of food in the fridge.
Cut everything that’s in a plastic bottle up to get the last bits out. Toothpaste tubes? Sure. Conditioner bottles? Yessir! Squeeze mayo? Certainly! Toothpaste tubes I cut off the ends and put my toothbrush in to get the last of it out. Conditioner bottle and condiments bottles I cut into halfway through halfway down the bottle. That way you can fold the bottle over and stop it drying out while you use the rest of the product up. AND it makes it easier to rinse out before you put it in the recycling.
Eyeing up piles of stuff that has been dumped or flytipped in your neighbourhood to see if anything is of use. Hey, one man’s junk and all that!
Not actually taking any money with you when you are out and about. It’s stopped me spending on more than one occasion as I didn’t have cash and the vendor didn’t take cards.
One afternoon I had a look at the library notice board after collecting some books, and I came across this notice:
It said that for a suggested donation of £2.50 per adult and £1.50 per child, anyone was welcome to attend and eat food that would otherwise had been thrown out by the supermarkets. Food is collected by FareShare that supermarkets need to get rid of due to their use by/best before dates, and Sharing Sherwood cooks the food and serves it to people who donate to eat. The funds are then donated to food banks around Nottingham.
Husband and I have lived here for a year now after we bought our house but want to get more involved in the community so we decided to go.
In addition to this, I am very passionate about food and food waste – wasting food is criminal in my opinion is a waste of precious resources and labour.
We have a food, toiletries and clothes bank at the college for hard up students – it is surprising and shocking to see how deprived some of our students are. As a department we also collect food for the food banks every summer as children who normally get free school meals have to be fed in the summer as they aren’t at school putting extra strain on people’s household finances.
Sharing Sherwood meets at the church up the street on the 2nd Sunday of every month at 6pm.
Husband and I went along, and paid at the door before finding a seat.
We had a lovely time there, trying the different food – there was loads of food to be had and everyone could have seconds if they wanted. 70 people attended and it was nice to see how varied the group was, from people with families to students to pensioners.
Everyone pitched in with cleaning up and putting stuff away afterwards, and this session we were told raised £155 for the foodbank. People are encouraged to bring a drink and a container when they come as they hand out the leftovers afterwards, so as to not waste food.
The food was delicious and there was plenty of it; we wouldn’t have realized this food was ‘out of date’ if we hadn’t been told. We think this is a brilliant idea, and husband and I said to each other several times how unbelievable it was that this food had not been snapped up by FareShare, it would have gone in the bin as it was past it’s ‘use by’/’best before’ date.
I spoke to one of the volunteers and they said that the only thing they did not get a lot of was meat as it’s hard to store and keep fresh until they use it. But with all the food that was available, it didn’t even occur to me that the meal needed some meat, it was fine as it was.
They also had some food laid out on one of the tables where you could help yourself, for a donation. We made a donation and took this home:
The next dinner will be held on the 13th of August and I’ve already put it in my calendar so husband and I will go again!
If you want to read more about the project and join their FaceBook page you can do so here.
Where did June go? It seems to just have whizzed by.
Despite this, June has been a very calm month, which we needed. Calm before the storm methinks, as we have asked the union to send husband’s employer the grievance letter now. Not a moment to soon as his employers continue to be infuriating.
Good things about June has been:
The weather has been lovely, meaning we’ve got some gardening on. I was gifted some plants for the garden so will see if I can get those going.
We’ve been under budget for the groceries again, which I’m very pleased about. We’ve still got some left of the food my sister’s family gifted us in April and it’s been such a boon to us. I managed to get some lovely reduced food and bargains from the fruit stall near my work. I also managed to snag some freebies with our last shop with Sainsbury’s.
Having Sundays free now as term has finished at the uni for the summer. No Sundays at work until October now! Yass!
Visiting our friends for a weekend, which was lovely and just what we needed.
We managed to list 47 new items on eBay we cleared out from when we did the flooring downstairs, when we had to empty the bookshelves.
Things that could have been improved about June were:
Husband’s workplace are still being ridiculous. The second part of his review which was due to happen mid-June was postponed due to a staff meeting and they have not arranged another date. This is the 6th time it has been pushed back. Manager texting husband at midnight to ask if he can work the next day. Husband was pulled to one side this week and was told to get in touch with the union rep as they have been trying to ring them but not getting a reply. They want a meeting arranged so that they can ‘hear what he has been saying to the union about them.’
We’ve had a letter regarding husband’s PIP application to say that Capita will be handling his PIP assessment.
Not quite sure how to feel about this.
To finish off, here is a picture of some street art we’ve got at the end of the path by the house: